06-11-2010, 08:16 AM
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Changing views
Why when we get married do me look for a nice, proper, and faithful wife? Then a few years down the road some of us want our wives to be total sluts, and fuck other men in front of us, take big black cock in their pussies unprotected, and just want them to have their pussied worn out by alot of other men while we watch and jackoff!
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06-11-2010, 05:13 PM
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Does she drink? If so then have her drink more. Put in a hidden video camera, search this thing called the Internet for ideas.
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02-17-2011, 05:08 PM
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it takes time
When Hubby & I started dating he was not long out of a relationship with a girl who ran off every time he took his eyes off of her. He knew she was taking his ride & his money while he was at work & going out screwing around, but she tried to act innocent. He used her for sex & nothing else & didnt really care.
When we moved in together he had trust issues because of it & it was kinda hard for a while. But over time our bond has grown, we trust each other completely, and we want noone but each other to love. This is why I dont mind if he has sex with a girl, and he isnt uncomfortable about me getting a little gangbang every now & then (as long as we're together when it happens).
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02-17-2011, 05:31 PM
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I think there are a lot of reasons. When I was married we played equally but I always loved seeing her have a good time and being fulfilled.
But as we all know there are steps that have to be taken. I know a couple I played with who were way to young and he wanted it for all the wrong reasons. Well, she loves it, he's jealous and controlling, I give them 6 months at most and she will find someone who is into the lifestyle and be happy. If I had a dime for every time I've seen that play out... But beyond that, satisfaction, mutual playing (it is usually a shared activity), etc... SOmeone once told me that the boundaries of every relationship are different and open to negotiation over time. Inevitably people fall into patterns and those people gather on websites and good on them for it! 
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02-17-2011, 05:37 PM
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Incidentally, and ladies PLEASE chime in here... Once a woman goes to fucking more than one man (swinging, poly, a great affair), she NEVER stops. She may try for a while but then she gives up and goes after more cock. I have been around the lifestyle for over a decade and never met a woman who did not convert for life.
Anyone else have this or another observation?
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02-17-2011, 11:15 PM
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My husband and I met swinging, so we both new what we were getting from that standpoint. We both enjoy others as well as each other. But I will say this, if my husband said he no longer wanted this lifestyle, I'd give it up tomorrow. When I was younger my response might have been different. But experience has taught me the importance of love, and it's not something I'd lightly lose.
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