Inconsiderate Spouse Smokers

[WHiTeCoCkZiLLa]

Sometimes I just want to choke my wifes eyeballs out of her head. She is so fucking Inconsiderate Of My Health. I tell her not to smoke around me & she does not pay it any mind. she knows & i know & everyone of you that smoke or does not smoke knows that second hand smoke kills just as well as first hand smoke. my wife does not have the right to make my chances for death more then they already are. I guess Ill need to get some signs & post them all over the fucking house reading "NO SMOKING!!!...HAZARDOUS TO YOU'RE HEALTH"...On the out side of the door & inside of the same door. why is it that humans are so fucking self destructive?...how blunt is it for a smoker to know it kills them & none smokers around them but they still do it. its fucking insane beyond words. So i will continue to bitch my wife out if she shows me no consideration for MY Health. she has no right to make me smoke right along with her.

Fucking shitty ass inconsiderate smoking Assholes.

[ohiocpl]

yes I am going threw the exact same thing my wife thinks it is no big deal and it is and honest wtf is it with a smoker as soon as there ass hits the seat of a car they have to get that cancer stick hanging out of there mouth think goodness here in ohio smoking has been baned inside all public buildings inculiding bars

[moanmaker]

I can tell you first hand that smoking kills! It killed my father at an early age! He loved his smoking more than he loved his life, wife,kids, grandkids! Very selfish people smokers! I cannot stand to be around them, if I go into a place and smell the smoke I leave!!
Sounds like you need to punish that wife of yours everytime she endangers you! Find something that hurts her, cock in her ass, tie her up and whip her ass, etc! Or something she is afraid of, spiders, snakes etc!
Feel for you!

[WHiTeCoCkZiLLa]

Originally Posted by moanmaker

I can tell you first hand that smoking kills! It killed my father at an early age! He loved his smoking more than he loved his life, wife,kids, grandkids! Very selfish people smokers! I cannot stand to be around them, if I go into a place and smell the smoke I leave!!
Sounds like you need to punish that wife of yours everytime she endangers you! Find something that hurts her, cock in her ass, tie her up and whip her ass, etc! Or something she is afraid of, spiders, snakes etc!
Feel for you!

OMG!...YOU HIT the nail on the head. she hates spiders.

[cdn_couple]

Or...instead of bitching and whining to the spouse about the smoking, try having a reasonable, adult conversation with them about your concerns and ask them to perhaps limit the smoking to one place in the house and find a compromise to the problem. We all do things that piss off our spouses and I'm sure you are no exception. Agreed, smoking is obviously bad for everyone, however, it's an addiction and a very difficult addiction to beat. If you are fortunate enough not to ever felt what an addiction feels like, then you are lucky...your spouses are not...so keep in mind that maybe showing your spouse your support while he/she beats the addiction might go a LONG way!

[moanmaker]

Originally Posted by WHiTeCoCkZiLLa

OMG!...YOU HIT the nail on the head. she hates spiders.

There are lots of big ones in the area you live, wolf spiders would be best, rather than any of the poisionous ones, that way no one gets hurt! All else fails the pet stores sell nice big rose hair tarantulas, those might give her a coronary though!

[david e]

Did your wife smoke before you married her? Did you know what you were getting into? I to am a nonsmoker and hate the smell of cig's but (not pun intended) did you change on rules on her later into the marrage. I also think out of respect for you she shouldn't smoke around you. Good luck and hope you two can work things out.

[upnatit]

I used to smoke but gave up about 5 years ago so I have some sympathy towards those who do smoke as is a real prick to give up. Took me three goes and finally suceeded. However I also have a problem wife who still smokes. She has no intention of giving them up. The majority of the time she will smoke outside or in the garage. I don't mind this. What pisses me off is when she decides to walk through the house with the smoke in her hand because she needed to do something inside which couldn't wait the couple of minutes to finish the smoke. I usually give her a bit of dirty look or simply say, "Would you get the fuck outside with that." This is usually effective. However what pisses me off the most is her smoking in the car with the kids. Luckily they have recetly made it an offence here in Australia to smoke whilst driving with kids in the car. This has sort of stopped her. Good luck with your spouses. Usually telling them works, but then again some will think thay can do what the fuck they want.

[WHiTeCoCkZiLLa]

Originally Posted by cdn_couple

Or...instead of bitching and whining to the spouse about the smoking, try having a reasonable, adult conversation with them about your concerns and ask them to perhaps limit the smoking to one place in the house and find a compromise to the problem. We all do things that piss off our spouses and I'm sure you are no exception. Agreed, smoking is obviously bad for everyone, however, it's an addiction and a very difficult addiction to beat. If you are fortunate enough not to ever felt what an addiction feels like, then you are lucky...your spouses are not...so keep in mind that maybe showing your spouse your support while he/she beats the addiction might go a LONG way!

Why do you think i bitch about her smoking?...because i have already tried the calm collective way. unless i raise my voice she does not seem to hear me. so this is why i bitch, rant & rave. so do not assume i have not tried a reasonable approach because i have. bitching yes but whining no. whining is crying & i have not shed a tear. get it right. I know you're a cancer smoker from just you're first sentence. i have not read the rest yet.

Limiting their cancer smoking to one place IN THE HOUSE is not good enough. cancer stick smoke carries even when you can't see it of smell it. from room to wrong even if doors are closed. it seeps through any crack. i have stated my health concerns MANY, MANY, MANY MANY, MANY times very calmly. so now from her lack of attention or safety for my health It has come to this. so know my situation before you presume to know i have not tried the diplomatic approach. So i have taken all the ash trays from the house. i told her that is she smokes do it out side so the air will carry it away. & then i told her i do not care if its 50 below outside she going to smoke outside. i told her maybe the cold will make you quit smoking cancer. so you better pack on the cloths. so its tough love now. shes the reason it has reached this point. no my fault. i do not smoke & i do not let contaminates enter her body from what i do like she does me.

I understand what an addiction is. & i have never been addicted to nothing but porn lol. I still can Imagen what the addiction of cancer sticks has on a person & i do. thats why i tried the calm approach first. compassion for her killing me to. but low talk & calm behavior does not work at all. raising my voice seems to work from situation to situation. then she goes back to not carrying again.

lmao. you're funny. the thing is shes NOT & i repeat NOT trying to beat the addiction.

[DaveMack]

I quit smoking two years ago. My wife continues to smoke. No, I don't like it and she is trying to quit but as someone who has quit and had to take several runs at it I know it isn't easy. For my money you would get more positive response if you spoke to her about it and perhaps involved your doctor. Screaming about whatever problem you may have, turning it into a war seldom has a good outcome.