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How I TRAINED MY WIFE
It took quite a long time to train my wife amd now she is a cum slut whenever I want her to be. She is a total submissive and will do everything I ask including fucking lots of guys. I started out with a few toys using them on her, then blindfolds and wrist straps, then tied her in bed, talking to her as I went about teasing her body, asking what if I had someone else here, what could you do you're all tied up. and I worked it like that for a long time untils she finally said she would not mind. that is when I jumped at the chance and set up a threesome. And just gradually worked up from there. working on a gangbang for her now. she really wants one. I want to see her totally used and well fucked by lots of cocks at the same time...
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helpful advice
you're running into the proverbial wall. The thing you have to realize is that she is scared of the outcome. Many people, both men and women are scared to open themselves up to that kind of choice. I spent years working with my wife and getting her past her inhibitions and strict upbringing. Her obvious fear was that I wanted other women. But the reality is that I love my wife and only her. that by wanting her to be with other men, I wanted her to open up and experience life and what others had to share with her. Since then she has blosssomed into a beautiful woman who knows what she wants with other men, that no matter who she chooses or how many, I am and will always be there for her.
She is a BBC slut now and damn proud to be who she always knew she was. She has a Queen of Spades tattooo on the small of her back, she freely admits that my cock is the only white cock she wants but that she loves black men and the way they fuck her and that the black men she chooses know that she is just in it for the sex and that no relationship is wanted. To many times she tried to play with white guys but they all seemed incapable of handling the situation especially since she requires that I be present at all her encounters. I know there are men out there who will counter and say that they would be fine with just having sex with her and not wanting a relationship, but in our experience it hasn't worked out for white guys. She loves black men and the way they handle themselves both in meeting us and in the bedroom. She is so excited when she is with black men, she has been that way with black men since she was a little girl. She has a strong atttraction to them and their confidence is the key factor. She will politely tell any prospective partner no if she doesnt feel that connection. She is a strong woman and I am proud to have her as my wife, friend and slut. Sorry if this is to long winded, but I feel it is relevant to the topic. The key is open and honest communication. It's about sharing your inner most desires with your wife, talking about everthing from the most basic to the most extreme. It takes time so please do not expect it to happen over night. It took almost two years for my wife to finally open herself to the possibility and to actually be with another man. In that time though we talked to each other, we shared our deepest desires, fears and the what-if's. No matter what you agree to and try to make rules about/for, there will be things that happen that you didn't plan or account for. Be prepared for jealousy and fear to grab hold of you the first few times you see your loved one with another person. Know that the other person brought into the bedroom may be bigger, longer and/or better then you in bed but that no matter what, you must allow your loved one to expeience that without feeling judged. Because I guarantee you that if you get angry with her or you show a negative jealousy it will be the one and only time you get to witness your dream. I recommend a book to anyone I come in contact with that has this kind of situation or is interested in an open marriage/lifestyle. The book is "The Ethical Slut". It is a book labeled to be about polyamory but the real discussion if you read it is about learning to live with the possibility of open love. Learning to live with jealousy and fear yet not letting it control you. If you get the opportunity check the book out and open yourself to the possibilities of love. |
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