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damn, i say it is luck...you have to have a certain way about it, don't pressure because it will mess everything up. but i think if you get control, it can be done. i think that women who ride are more assertive and will not do it if she does not want to. i have been very lucky,man. if you get it, thank her and tell her how good that booty is all the time. i have always been straightforward and it has helped more than not.
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Anal
Anal can be painful, at least thats what some women think and thats why they try to keep a fat cock away from their butt.
If you keep on pushing it's not going to do you any better, it took me 7 yrs to get it in my girl's butt and I was dying to do it, dont push her!!! it wont work...best way to approach it is little by little start rubbing your hard on over her asshole using her juices do not push it in or even try pushing it, let her relax and feel confident with you like I said it wont work overnight to you keep on doing this and after a while try going in, just the head, pull it out if she didnt like it and go back to rubbing. Good luck mate. |
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Firstly I know how you feel, my wife has the sexiest arse I've ever seen and that includes on the internet. But sadly some years ago one of her friends told her about her first anal experience.
Doesn't sound like she enjoyed it much, she told her it hurt and wasn't much fun and the guy shot his load inside her and didn't pull out as he'd agreed to which gave her the runs apparently. I've approached the subject carefully and my wife hasn't given me a firm no way, but she's afraid that: 1. it will hurt and won't be any fun for her. 2. It will be messy. 3. It will damage her arse perminantly. 4. That if I like it I'll stop wanting to fuck her pussy (no way that is going to happen). It probably doesn't help that she has told me on many occasions I have by far the thicket cock she's ever had, which she loves in her pussy although I have to make sure she's very wet before trying to fuck her and she says it's to big and hurts when we do it doggy style, so we hardly do that. I do finger her arse a little when she rides my cock, and she's let me wank onto her arse a few times. I think she was a little freaked out when I told her I liked to lick her pussy from behind because I loved to smell her arse while I did it (her arse is kept pretty clean I should add but I love the smell of her butt sweat), but I think she is ok with it now I can usually get away with briefly rimming her if I've been licking her pussy that way for a while but if I do it for more than a few seconds she moves away. I suggest doing what I'm doing e.g. reading all I can on making anal sex more pleassurable for the woman, being patient and gradually introducing more arse play to your love life, backing off if she is getting uncomfortable. using fingers and small toys to get her used to things in her arse before you try and stick something the size of your cock up there. I think it will work, not long ago she wouldn't let me cum on her tits or in her mouth now we've been together 6 years and married 1 and it's only in the last couple of months she has started letting me cum on her breasts and the other day I was standing by the bed which she was sitting on while she blew me (she's pregnant so this is easier for her). I warned her I was cumming and to my suprise she took 90% of it in her mouth and swallowed only letting the last couple of spirts go on her tits with no preassure from me. Last edited by Michal Wright; 07-08-2010 at 04:09 AM. |
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took me a while but my wife finally give in... here is my trick... everytime u guys have sex, try playing with her asshole and finger it little by little, if she's comfortable with it, then u have a chance of doing it, if not just keep rubbing it till she get's into it, sooner or later next time u guys do it, it will be in her glorious ass!
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It not all about lube
You said when she see's your member.... does that mean your hung.... That could be your answer. Theirs not a lot of women that can plunge a big cock in there butts.
If she is into it.... yes, lube.... try some rimming.... then lube up good, finger her a bit. Have her lie on her side.... let her control the push in.... she will know how far, how hard, when to breath and relax..... laying on her side lets her muscles relax, oh her back or hands and knees.....uses glut muscles.... you can also let her be on top.... again it lets her control.... If your just shoving in.... *PAIN*.... you should try, pushing one of her toys in your ass.... then you will understand.... good luck.... if it's a never go there, it's not the end of the world...... |
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my wife w'd not let me fuck her in the ass . everytime i try she end up screaming and crawling fast from under me. It was'nt untill she fuck this hot hunk stud 15yrs her senior. she was 25, he was 40. and I was 30.he didn't gave her the oportunity to scape .he gave it to her without mercy, she says it hurted so good that after he pop her cherry ass. whenever they w'd fuck she w'd not wait for him to ask her to be fuck in the ass.she w'd position herself leting him know she wanted it in the ass. She finally let me fuck her 3 moths later after she got pop.
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