Going to a club.

[kattony688]

The wife and I are considering going to a small club. The host has told us that there are usually 20-30 couples at thier events and it all sounds nice. The problem is that we have read stories on this site, as well as others, about their experiences. The stories range from the couples doing nothing but watching....to the wife having 5-6 different guys during the course of the evening. I worry because we will be the "fresh meat" and may draw more attention then we desire. I would love to hear your thoughts or comments about going to an adult club.

[shavencouple69]

All clubs are different.The first time we didnt no what to expect
Just wander around,relax and do what you feel like doing.The places we have been to have always had very respectful people there and will not bother you if you do not want them too.

[Smokey5760]

We started at an on premise club for couples only and it worked great. NO means no and you do not have to explain or do anything. Just have some drinks and dance yourselves and/or with others and if you find someone you like make sure your partner likes the other half. If she is turned on by someone she can let them feel her tits or more. People went to their rooms but there was a party room where people could have group sex so what ever turns you on.