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some people don't understand boundaries...
I think part of it is that there are a lot of people in this world who don't understand boundaries.
When we are fucking I call my wife a slut and even a whore. She loves the dirty talk and loves being verbally degraded (i.e. the slut/whore thing I mentioned), but I would never in a million years call her that outside of a sexual situation. Nor would she let me get away with it either. In my opinion (and you know what they say about opinions), guys who send you messages like that don't recognize or respect boundaries. They see an attractive woman who likes to have sex and they assume that means it is free game to say anything they want to her. |
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i love women!!!!! all women!!!!! and yes i'd love to be with every woman here!!! but i get my pleasure from pleasing them any way they want!! and i'm into orally licking and sucking which i just love and if any woman wants to be licked till they scream ! i'm all for it!! i just want "her" to enjoy it and have a great orgasam (or more) it gets me off knowing that i totally pleased her!!!!
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pleasure?
silverone:I think that most men that make those type of comments believe that females are only put on this earth for their pleasure. They care about nothing other than their pleasure and care less if you feel pain or pleasure. This is the type that if they are not asked to leave early, never get invited back for a second session. Some ladies like this kind of treatment. If this is not yourr thing, you can spot them most of the time before you ever invite them to play. Just an opinion and everyone has one.
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There's a difference between commenting on photos and sending personal messages. You can get pretty over the top with comments, regardless whether the photo caption or the person's profile indicates they would welcome it. However, if the profile seems to me like they wouldn't like it, I'll tone it down out of respect.
PMs are totally different. You're actually talking one-on-one with a person (or couple) and unless again they say on their profile, and many do, that they want to receive and will respond to unsolicited nasty email, it's totally inappropriate. |
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I love dirty talk during sex as well. But I also despise men who are just crude. True well dressed gentleman are a turn on for me. While fucking me or perhaps whispering in my ear in public what hey wish to do to me is one thing. Just plain being vulgar is another.
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respect above all
If a person doesn't feel respected, then there is little joy to be attained. Respect is the key to that "magic" door, where once inside anything goes! Vulgarity (dirty talk) is pointless without the reference to the level of respect extended. Much like with electricity: it is the difference wherein lies the potential!
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Based on the comments i have recieved in my messages, i really appreciate my husband for being a man and good guy. latley i have been doing alot of thinking and I have experienced so much sexually i had so much to get out of my system as much as i love sex and all the kink, it's time i focus more on the hubby rather than outside the marriage. someone on here really creeped me out so i think its the best thing
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