How did you get into the Lifestyle??? - DoMyWife

adventure1 · #1 (**permalink**) 10-25-2011, 05:31 PM

I have been with my girlfriend for 1-1/2 years and over that period of time we have had (2) MFF threesomes with two different friends of hers that were spending the night after partying. She often tells me that she's open to anything sexually speaking and we have an incredible uninhibited sex life which I don't want to ruin. I am just curious as to how others approached their significant other to discuss going to house parties or swing clubs? Any advice or information would be appreciated!

murrellsinletbiker · #2 (**permalink**) 10-26-2011, 02:10 AM

I 1st got into the lifestyle through friends I had and friends I met online. I was involved with a couple of long time friends. We had a mfm 3some one night, over the course of a year or so the lady and I started hooking up "with his permission of course". This went on for 3 years. Then they moved to nashville tenn.
I then placed a add online, I met an amazing local couple. We became best of friends and hot passionate lovers. They invited me to join them at the local swing club. I met several cool people and have be deeply involved in the lifestyle since.
Maybe a night at the local swing club or even a trip to a club out of town may be what you need.

num1scamp · #3 (**permalink**) 10-26-2011, 06:17 AM

I first had a threesome at a party. Then a couple of years later a couple more with a new boyfriend. My experimentation just grew from those experiences. I met my husband thru swinging, and have been at it ever since.

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adventure1 · #4 (**permalink**) 11-03-2011, 08:27 PM

Thanks for the information and advice

longstroker32 · #5 (**permalink**) 11-03-2011, 09:14 PM

The short n' sweet version.

Wife was a virgin when we married. She had saved herself for her husband. On our wedding night she was visibly disappointed in my cock size but made the best of it. Over the next few months our sex life declined to nothing. After 4 months of no sexual contact we were talking separation or divorce even tho we agreed that we loved each other. I suggested she sleep with someone else to meet her needs. She declined but later agreed to try it. My best friend was the lucky guy. She loved it. Our marriage got better. He moved in with us for 1.5 years. After that she pretty much screwed whoever she wanted.

kjs1961 · #6 (**permalink**) 05-09-2023, 10:47 AM

We were having same room sex with another couple (which I thought at the time was a HUGE step for us)
The other woman passed out (lots of alcohol involved) and the other guy, a friend of mine, walked up to Nina, who was sitting on top of me, and stuck his dick in her face.