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I was pretty sexually active before my first marriage, and then things reall slowed down. I believe that was because the marriage was not good though, even though he was good in bed, I just came not to desire him as much. After I got divorced my sex life while dating was pretty active. I have always loved it. Then I met my current husband and found a partner who matched my own desires and attitudes about sex. I had more sex then, after marriage, then ever before.
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(Tifani) I was sexyally active before marriage, but not to any great extent. When i met rick, he fit me perfectly, and even though we have sex a lot, and he's opened me up so much more sexually than I ever thought, that's not what it's all about. he is my best friend, and does more for me than anyone could hope to. He generallly cares for, and takes care of me. That's what makes me want him so much. If I'm tired when I get home from work, he does everything for me, without me asking. that's what draws me to him more than before we were married.
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don't have to tell me
you don't have to tell me about less sex after marriage. it was ok for years, then slowed after about 2 years of marriage and now has been 2 years since we've been together. I've offered to bring another man into the mix, what woman wouldn't want another man or men with her? Hence I have to be on a site such as this one, and watch the vids and jerk myself off. Haven't cheated up until now, have just met a couple that want to get together with me and I will. I feel like a bum, but I need a woman, not my left hand and a mouse in my right hand.. I know she doesn't cheat, wouldn't bother me if she did, just bring some of that lust home. Would love any ideas on how to jump start her, and I would be more than willing to share her, in order to get some of her. This has been going on for 30 years of marriage, so these videos turn me into a raging bull, although not hung like one, and I get extremely turned on watching them, especially the wife sharing type.
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I think it has a lot to do with life. It seems if you let life get in the way, sex can be one of the first things to get lost in the shuffle. It wasn't until we opened things up and I started playing with others that I realized how much I do enjoy being with my husband. I do enjoy playing with other men, but what really turns me on is telling him about it, or if he is watching to look into his eyes while it is going on.
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