07-13-2020, 08:34 AM
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Have I created a monster?
My wife and I have had quite few threesomes, or foursomes, and sometimes moresomes and we've had a lot fun with it. I've always been the one that sets everything up, she trusts my judgement and that's the way it's worked for us. She loves sex, specifically she loves to be fucked wham bam thank you ma'am and who's next style. I get very turned watching her with other men and I want her to let loose and really have fun. She knows I want maximum pleasure for her and that I get my fun too because I always take my turn with her well-used pussy. I do love sloppy seconds! There has always been a small worry in her mind though that she's getting the better end of the deal and she's afraid that at some point I may begin to feel left out. I always reassure her that I want her to have all the sex she wants, if she's having fun I'm having fun.
One thing she won't do though is have sex without me being present. I've tried to encourage her to bring home a surprise creampie sometime but she flatly refused each time I mentioned it. She always says that it's something we do together and that would be too much like cheating. I read posts by other men on this site that describe their wives being out on dates, or getting home from work or the neighbor's house or the adult cinema with a pussy full of cum. Or she goes to the ladies room in a bar and comes back with cum in her hair. I would love for her to do all those things and I also know she would love it if she ever let herself do it. I'd like her to go full slut on her own and then tell me all about it later while I fuck her. Well last night she surprised me. We were in bed, she was playing with and sucking my cock, which she really likes doing. Her birthday is in a couple months and I reminded her that I won't be home for her birthday, I'll be out of town that whole week. Out of the blue she asked me if she could get fucked on her birthday anyway! Of course I said go for it! She can get fucked any day she wants, as long as she tells me all about it later while she rides my cock! She was so excited that she pretty much raped me immediately. Even though I've been telling her for years that she is free to fuck whoever she wants whenever she wants, she hadn't considered it a real possibility until last night. By the time we went to sleep she had made plans to fuck a friend and his cousin (both have fucked her before). She's going to text him this morning and she's hoping they'll be able to do her two or three times a week, and since they're both single they'll probably do just that. Plus there's another friend she wants to fuck on a regular basis also, so it looks like she's going to be bringing home a lot of creampies. I can't wait! Obviously she didn't just think of all that on the spur of the moment, the truth is it's been on her mind for some time, if not consciously then sub-consciously. She now truly believes that I won't think less of her if she goes into slut mode occasionally (or even full-time permanent) and that has freed her from censoring her actions. Fingers crossed but I may have succeeded in getting her to be the slut I've always wanted after all! I'd love to hear from others in similar situations, did it work out like you wanted, is it still good years later? Ladies, I'd value your thoughts and opinions on the subject too. I know there are a number of married women on this site that I'd like my wife to emulate. Big changes ahead for my wife and I and wondering what will happen from here. 
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07-13-2020, 06:56 PM
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mine used to be so very self-doubtful and prudish ... but then that one time, when I had JUST knocked her up, that I sent her off to CollegeTown to get freely plowed.
She ended up returning as a gang-banged slut with dried cum in almost every patch of her hair. After she told me what and who she could recall, I RECLAIMED HER and her well worn holes with vigor and intensity. Since then, she has become more confident, a better lover and easier to get an orgasm. I've watched her cum with dozens of men & women, but she always drags herself back to me for Reclamation.
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07-15-2020, 11:35 AM
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A monster, no. A woman who is feeling free to enjoy herself, yes. That genie may not go back in the bottle. As a woman who's been fortunate enough to be married to a man who has always supported me and encouraged me in almost anything I've wanted to do, I can say if anything happened to him, I'd never again settle for a man who didn't allow me a lot of freedom. Not all women enjoy recreational sex, but I do. I would not like having to give that freedom up. I've known swinger friends who wound up marrying people who wanted them to be totally monogamous. I only know of one case where that really worked out. That case was a male I knew who gave it up for his new wife. A change like that would be hard. So once she has that freedom, if she really enjoys it, she's not likely to give it up.
j
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07-16-2020, 07:37 AM
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I have to say that I wasn't seriously worried that my wife would become an out of control monster, that was probably a poor choice for a title. It was meant meant more in a tongue in cheek kind of way.
She hasn't actually done it yet though. She clearly wants to but there is still an inner struggle regarding the distinction between having the freedom to go a-fucking, and cheating. I reassured her again that this is something I want, something I'm asking her to do for me if she's willing. She knows she has always had the freedom to have sex with whoever she wants, whenever she wants but she has always maintained that she won't have sex with another guy unless I'm there also. If she did, she feels that would make her a cheater and a liar. It was very similar when we first discussed her having sex with other men. I first mentioned it because she has such a large capacity for sex. I figured she could have twice the fun with two guys, it would just be a fun gift from me to her. We would talk about it during sex and it always made her horny so I knew she liked the idea, but it took months to convince her that I was truly ok with it. Even then she was hesitant to really let loose and enjoy herself, she was afraid I'd be jealous if she had too much fun. She was afraid I'd think she was a slut. It was about this time I realized that's what we both wanted - for her to be a slut. I don't use that word to degrade, to me it means a woman that feels free to do whatever she wants sexually and for my wife that means lots of cocks and bareback fucking lol. Yesterday I dared her (in a playful way) to go out and fuck a guy or guys, and come home with a cream-filled pussy. She likes to take a dare and show that she isn't afraid to break societal norms so I knew this would get a rise out of her. In the past I've dared her to flash her pussy to a married man in a restaurant where his wife can't see, or flash truck drivers on the interstate, or to dance naked in the moonlight in our driveway. She did all those things with a big smile, but if she is ever reluctant all I have to do is make it a dare and she'll do it immediately. She was so turned on when she first agreed to it, she couldn't wait to get started but the reality has turned out to be more challenging. So in the meantime I'll be patient but hopeful, and in time I may just get my fantasy fulfilled.
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07-16-2020, 08:35 AM
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Good luck to you then. You're right, if she has permission it isn't cheating. We always let each other know exactly what we are doing, out of respect for one another. I personally don't consider "slut" a pejorative term, though most do. I admit I fit the definition and own it.
j
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07-16-2020, 08:16 PM
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I’m with scamp once the genie is out of the bottle there’s no going back. We had been swinging for quite a few years (20 or more) when the company I was working started sending me out of town all week. And the bad part she was use to having sex multiple times a week. Then boom nonexistent all week till I got home on Friday evening. I kept telling her to invite some of the guys or couples over and she kept saying no I can’t do that. Well after the third weekend of almost nonstop sex with me and many others she finally said maybe I could invite one or two guys over through the week. We had the internet by then which was great. She video chatted me after one of the guys had left Tuesday evening and told me all about her experience. She didn’t leave out any details and was giddy as a school girl. Finally when she calmed down she commented that might hold her over till Friday when I would get home. I told her you know your use to way more sex a week than that. And convinced her to invite a couple of other guys over Wednesday evening and turn on the camera hookup on the computer so I could watch. She finally agreed to do that with some coaxing from me. She said she thought #$%@ would be available and I gave her another name to call. And she was up for it and I think was excited too. What she didn’t know after we got off the video chat I made a phone call to the guy I told her to call to give him a heads up and to take along another guy with him.
Well the next night finally came and she started the video chat in the family room so I had full view of the hole room. She was dressed in a sexy robe with all the fixens and the doorbell rang. It was guy #1 and she gave him a hug & kiss then a few minutes later the doorbell rang again and it was guy#2 with another guy! She was quite surprised and looked over at the camera with this deer in headlights look. She turned back and gave both of them a big hug &kiss too. After some small talk and a couple of drinks the fun began. She totally acted as if I was right there and didn’t hold back letting them do anything they wanted and a lot she wanted. Over all it was an extremely hot video chat to watch and to see her enjoying getting every orifice on her body used over and over was amazing. As all three left they waved at the camera and kissed her goodbye. When she came over to the camera I could tell she was well satisfied and exhausted. She called me an asshole for inviting the third guy but he was quite satisfying too. I ask her if she was up to doing that every evening of the week she blurted back no not every evening but maybe three times a week. Well I was out of town every week throughout the winter and got well entertained at least twice a week. After that winter she has gotten way more comfortable having sex with me not being there.
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10-01-2020, 06:39 PM
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Pandora's box.
We were 35 and married 15 years when my wife went with her first ever other guy (I popped her cherry when we were 18), I had no idea of the Pandora's box I was opening when it happened, it was fun and very sexciting seeing my 35 year old wife exploring the power of her pussy over guys just for the fun of it.
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10-04-2020, 06:39 AM
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