What turns you on about sharing?

	Username: Chicagokink
	Date: 11-Jan-2010 05:30:40
	Mood: horny
	Music:

I personally have two perspectives on this. One as Husband watching my wife get
fucked and the other as the one fucking another mans wife.

I love being in a room with others and see my wife get fucked. It is very
exciting to see her open herself up to others and forget herself. It is so
sensual and hot to see her treated like a sex object/goddess while I watch or
participate. I love to see her cum hard while ridding another man's cock or
while being pounded hard from behind. I want her to be nasty. My own porn star
fucking live. I want to see him bend her to his will and do things she hesitates
to do with me. I love her expression when she gets a mouthful of cum it's only
match is when she gets a splash of cum on her face or tits or ass. To me it is
not about feeling humiliated. Some guys into Cuck are in it for that. That is
not my appeal or about a man of another race fucking my wife. I just like to see
her be a bad girl. It allows me by proxy to enjoy myself with others. I want her
to let herself go and be a slut with my permission. Still my slut but with
others. It could be about the whole if you love something let it go if it
doesn't come back it was never yours. I want her to crave this experience again
and again in the future.

As the man fucking another mans wife. Well there is the appeal of anew body a
new lover her scent her smell taste. Is she slimmer? rounder ? larger? tighter?
wetter? How does she sounds and react to my old tricks? To this woman my moves
are new and sexy. She kisses different than my wife. Next time I kiss my wife
our rhythm will be off because we had other partners. It is the thrill of the
first kiss again. I want to make her moan in front of my wife and her husband.
Wonder if they are jealous. Maybe it will make my wife fuck him harder to make
me jealous. Maybe he will start to pound my wife harder to make his wife pay
notice to him. So that he sees her as capable of pleasuring another man. I love
that we don't know how far we can go and hesitate before cumming. I ask out
loud "where would you like me to cum" to a woman that is technically still a
stranger. Does she dive straight in with her mouth or does she hold up her
breasts? What does my wife do? is she jealous that i came with this woman and
not with her this time? Did she want me to cum in her instead?

Well how about you guys and girls? Anyone have any thoughts on the subject? I
would love it if you guys shared?

Living in fear of Law enforcement can spoil the fun

	Username: Chicagokink
	Date: 18-Jan-2010 06:19:59
	Mood: disappointed
	Music:

I saw a post at another board and wanted to share my reaction about it here with you guys. It seemed like a shame. This couple was going to a part hosted by a very cool and reputable couple. They saw in the parking lot an unmarked police vehicle and decided to call it a night.

"""""but as soon as we got there, we saw a unmarked police car, so we stayed in the car for about a half an hour hopeful that the cops will leave, but they never did, so we left. And for that half an hour, there was only one guy that went inside."""""

Shesh! They police officers love pussy, cock, tits and ass as much as the next Horny human. Sorry I know how jittery people can get. I would do a double take myself. But we all have to remember some truths. We are not living in the 50's under a McCarthy black book system. Yes the US is still one of the most conservative countries in the world when it come.s to sex. In my opinion we are almost as bad as a theocracy sometimes. But we have evolved.

Why are we all so afraid of our LE? Their job is to protect our rights. What happens at places like 15th ave and at the Hotel or house parties while it can be viewed by some as immoral is not illegal in anyway. Morals and that sort of thing is always shaded by perception. Law enforcement agencies leave that to philosophers, prophets and religions. The law under whose umbrella we all shelter no matter what our views on sexuality and the expression of ones private desires is there to provide equality to all citizens of this nation. Their job is to protect our rights such as the pursuit of happiness. It is not to be feared but to be respected and trusted. I know that this may sound naive, but ultimately it is the only way we can cope with this guilty paranoid fear. Yes while it might affect adversely our careers or our life if our families and colleagues knew what we enjoy doing in the nude with other consenting adults It is not the place of law enforcement agents to police these events. It is not the first time that i have heard from people being afraid to join in the fun becasue either they saw a state troopers crusier parked in front of an establishment or as in this case a car with LE plates. It has always seemed to me that 15th conducts its business well above the table in a manner that parallels the laws in IL and the USA. Common sense prevails of course. Last time I was there a couple of guys showed up and stood by the group of guys hanging by the lockers. They asked what was up and were told a very sexy couple was playing in the room. They started asking questions like "Oh there's girls available here?" "How much does she charge" Fishy questions. Could have been new guys could have been vice. But the crowd immediately explained the situation correctly everyone jumped to the defense of said couple and the ABS. "no no no its not like that " "That is his wife!" "They are here to show each other off and maybe find another one or two guys to join them" "It's their fetish that's what they get off on" "We all do" . Any way maybe it was just a couple of new clueless guys or maybe it was LE but in any case since no illegal activities take place at 15th ave. everyone was safe.

Another thing to remember is that not all the parties out there are legit. You go to a party Like the ones hosted by Irish, Avida or by Sheba or purple diva or any of the guys from always want more and you know what you are walking in to. Friendly adults having sensual fun together. You are a guest of friends so you bring something to contribute to the party be it drinks food, entertainment or chipping in with the room. These men and women have been doing this for a while and as consenting adults they know how to police themselves. I would feel safe in their company. They know that if one bad apple breaks a law he jeopardizes everyone's fun. There is no law that forbids 3somes 4somes, orgies, anal or oral, or anything else like that in IL. There are No sodomy laws in IL similar to those in other states anymore. Dammit we were the first state in the nation to repeal its consensual sodomy law. Illinois in 1961 became the first state to adopt the recommendation of the American Law Institute and repeal its consensual sodomy law. Illinois voters adopted a new constitution in 1970 that included a specific right to privacy. Which means that if it's between consensual adults it is lawful to enjoy sex in its many variations.

What you need to watch out for is parties that feel more like you are splitting a "pussy time share". If it feels like you are paying to pay it probably means you are. Paying for sex is illegal duh!. Just because you didn't hand the cash to your sexual partner doesn't mean you didn't pay if each person is asked to contribute to the room an amount that is more than 50% of the room.

Another thing is drugs. If there was a bust because of suspected soliciting and solicitation charges where dismissed one idiot with a joint could ruin it for everyone. If you cant function in a social setting with out being buzzed and alcohol is not enough take it elsewhere.

If the hosts of the gathering are honest with the hotel/motel administration about what is going to go on in the room when they are exploring venues things like being thrown out wont happen. And don't for get yeah it is a party but there are other guests in the hotel so be considerate. Look for places that have hosted sex shows and swingers conventions in the past. IML and Vicious valentine are two of my favorite Chicago conventions and the hotels are glad to make arrangement' s. For something involving 10 maybe 12 people in a suite I am sure the same can be done. Keep a low profile. Don't rock the boat. The party is in the room. Stay in the room. Don't cruise the hallways looking for another party. That is just creepy and it's a 911 call waiting to happen. If it is a non smoking room, don't smoke in the room. Don't smoke in the hall way either or in the balcony. I guarrantee you will get complaints. Keep the music down. Music is fun at parties and I know moaning will be inevitable. Hosts are usually smart enough to ask for a room far from other guests. If they are honest with the management about why, they will accommodate you. Try making a deal with the hotel and do a pre-party registration at the bar. Reveal the suite numbers only there. That way you can screen guests away from the party and the hotel makes extra money if the guests drink and warm up there.

As for a single unmarked LE car I am pretty sure he was either in a room with his honey or at the party having fun. So if it was police they must have been keeping an eye out since no illegal activity was taking place they just sat there. I would not worry about an unmarked car or even a state trooper cruiser parked in front. Not unless the Lights where flashing blue and there was a paddy wagon parked next to it. The police officers that have visited 15th have never been obstructive or abusive. In and out. Mostly they cruise the parking lot to make sure everything is legit there. Hotels would not call cops unless the guests where being disruptive and other guests complained.

I don't know sorry if I came off as a blow hard I just wanted to share what I think about the subject.

Sincerely ChicagoKink
aka "M"

Going to Couples Choice in chicago this Saturday march 12

	Username: Chicagokink
	Date: 08-Mar-2011 06:48:08
	Mood: in love
	Music:

Any couples interested in joining us? We would love some company.