Elaine's First Time

[chiefjake]

what a fantastic wife!

[num1scamp]

Elaine and I are much alike. I however was first shared by a boyfriend before I met my husband. I was very young and already divorced. My early 20's. I enjoyed my 1st threesome a great deal and it was the first of many with my boyfriend . I was pretty uninhibited and loved sex, so swinging was naturally the next step. after we broke up I continued swinging with some people we'd met and especially with a lady I'd met. I was set up to meet my future husband thru them. She even took some pics of me that I sent to him at the time and he reciprocated. We lived about 4 hours apart at the time. Our first date wound up lasting 3 days, most of it spent in my bed. Our first time with another couple was about 3 weeks later.

Our sex life was full and pretty adventurous from the start. I guess I became a Hotwife long before I'd ever heard that term. up for pretty much anything an I can't think of a time I haven't strived to please my husband. He's also always tried to keep things interesting for me. We've certainly got no regrets for our lifestyle, while it certainly may not be for everyone it's served us well. I wouldn't trade my husband for anyone and I know he feels the same way about me. We've never contracted an std, we've been careful, and I've been with more men than I can count. I must also say that most of my experiences have been very enjoyable. The men who weren't good partners I never saw again, but I really can only remember two I wish I'd never met. One because he became a pest, my husband had to deal with him. The other The other was a musclebound jerk who simply tried to fuck me so hard I'd submit to him I guess. He was the worst lover I've ever encountered. May others have the same joy we have, if they are capable of it. It's not for everyone. But I still lust for life myself.

j

[Sancho69]

To have you.

num1scamp, my fiancee and you have it figured out. Men love naughty women. Men are visual. They love to look at naked women, and they love to watch women performing sex acts on them. My fiancee learned those facts during her promiscuous college years.

My fiancee has a friend who's a full on swinger. Her husband and her have invited my fiancee to a swinger party. At the time, my fiancee was enduring a miserable divorce. She told me she would have gone if she hadn't of been a CA divorce basket case. She would do a swinger party but not in her backyard. She has a gang bang fantasy that's she doesn't think she'll experience.

My fiancee loves attention from men.

My fiancee would need inpatient psych care if her kids found out that their mom is a bedroom porn star.

[Sancho69]

BTW num1scamp, my fiancee has told me that she learned from one of her first boyfriends that men love to watching women sucking their dicks.

[num1scamp]

Yes, of course they do. They also love it all the more if you show them you really enjoy doing it. When I suck a cock I usually look him right in the eye, especially when he cums in my mouth. A man can tell when you love it.

j

[Sancho69]

Originally Posted by num1scamp

Yes, of course they do. They also love it all the more if you show them you really enjoy doing it. When I suck a cock I usually look him right in the eye, especially when he cums in my mouth. A man can tell when you love it. j

Hi num1scamp,

I'd love to post photos of my fiancee sucking my cock. If I could without reveling her identity, I would.

My fiancee knows that men are visual. They wanted to see her hot, sexy, playmate of the Year body. She has no inhibitions about nudity. She's told me a million times that nudity is normal and natural. She's has never had a problem getting naked. She knows the power her naked body has over men. She has pragmatic sexual beliefs. She believes that sex is normal and natural. She's sexually submissive by nature. If she was asked, she did it.

Somewhere around our third date my fiancee initiated a graphic blowjob conversation. From memory alone, if it was possible, she always got naked before giving blowjobs because men were turned on my her hot, sexy naked body. To this day, she'll assure that I have an unobstructed view of my cock disappearing inside of her mouth.

[Sancho69]

Hi num1scamp,

I've forgotten to tell you that you have stunningly beautiful tits.

As a dude who has known a whole lot of dudes, I can definitively write that men love naughty, kinky women. Men want bedroom porn stars. They want sexually experienced women. They want uninhibited women who love sex.

When I was introduced to my fiancee, I thought I would need a crowbar to spread her legs. We fucked our brains out on our first date. She's in her sexual prime. She can fuck 24/7/365. She could wear out a football team.

This is a screen shot. I've blurred my fiancee's eyes. However, you can see that she's beautiful. Within a few dates, I straddled her head while she sucked my balls. A couple weeks prior, I thought it would take a miracle to get her naked. I couldn't have been more wrong.

During the video that this screen shot was taken from, my fiancee was on my nuts like fox raiding a hen house. She told me early in the dating phase of our relationship that stimulating nuts with her mouth and tongue were essential to giving mind blowing blow job. We were both looped when I shot the video. My fiancee can clearly be heard in the video that she loved to suck balls. My fiancee's favorite position to work a guy's nuts is tea bagging with her head between a guy's legs. It's related to her desire to be dominated during sex.

As you can see in the photo, my fiancee assured that I had a clear view of her sucking my nuts. She learned at a very young age (19) that men are visual, they wanted her naked, and they wanted to watch her performing sex acts on them.

Now that I know how to blur my fiancee's face, I'll find a photo of her sucking my cock.

[burllleee]

Re-read this whole thread and it's some really fantastic reading

[John Skolte]

I just read this thread for the first time, burllleee, and it is great reading.

I have to add some reassurance for Elaine as far as her age-related desirability. A great lay is a great lay and an attractive piece is an attractive piece regardless of age. Some girls look like crap at an early age--twenties, maybe even teens, while others hold their looks remarkably well. When I was in my twenties I knew two such women. One was in her forties, the other in her sixties. The younger one obviously looked younger, while the older one was starting to show her age, but she was remarkably "well preserved" for her age.

The younger woman could have been my mother, the older one could have been my grandmother, and both of them looked like great lays. Times have changed and telling the humorous, to me, off-color joke about being an organ player to the younger one, like I did, would possibly get me fired in today's puritanical society. Regardless of that, I would have gladly fucked either one of those women, especially the older one. My God, she was a great looking lay, who I would have loved o have had many, many times. A few years earlier I was acquainted with another woman who could definitely have been my grandmother, and who showed her age much more but who I would also have fucked, if given the chance. I DID offer to be a sperm donor for her.

I would put Elaine in the same class as the first older woman I described, about twenty years older and still VERY desirable. Elaine is aging well. Greying hair doesn't change the rest of the package. She obviously fucks quite well and is, therefore, very fuckable and, likewise, desirable. I see no reason why that should change as long as she continues to be a willing and eager sex partner.

[burllleee]

I agree with all of that John